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“After the loss of our son, Jenny and I were just trying to process our grief and get through it together,” said Jessica Buntemeyer. “To erase Jenny’s name from the death certificate was like trying to erase all the love, commitment, and work we had both put into planning a family. We were in complete shock.”
On October 21, 2011, Jessica gave birth in Iowa to Brayden Bruce Buntemeyer, at 30 weeks’ gestation. He died in utero prior to labor after his umbilical cord became wound around his neck. On the fetal death certificate form, Jessica filled out the boxes for “mother” and Jenny filled out the boxes marked “father,” the only option on the form for a second parent. On January 12, 2012, Iowa Department of Public Health issued them a death certificate on which someone had erased Jenny’s name and identifying information.
Don’t let the Iowa Department of Public Health erase Jenny Buntemeyer from Brayden’s death certificate just because he had two moms. Join Lambda Legal and One Iowa’s petition.
“After the loss of our son, Jenny and I were just trying to process our grief and get through it together,” said Jessica...


